It is possible for women to steer clear of an unhappy
relationship. However, it will require taking an honest look at
themselves and their relationship mistakes.
After repeating the same relationship mistakes over and over
gain, women begin to realize something is not working. The easy
way out is to blame the men. However, if one looks deep enough
the only consistent variable in every relationship is the woman!
Women who feel they “love” a man will stay in an unhappy
relationship longer than they should. This often causes
psychological trauma that can take years to overcome!
This trauma also makes it difficult for the woman to accept, and
open up to, a decent man who is not responsible for the hurt and
pain caused by the previous relationship.
One of the keys for women to break free from an unhappy
relationship is to determine if their needs are being met!
Since many women are emotional creatures while in love, they
often become confused. Simple relationship mistakes such as
confusing a want with a need can result in women dating men who
are not compatible with them.
Every woman’s goal should be to identify those small
relationship mistakes that cause most, if not all, of their
problems. The results will lead to a happier life.
What also hurts women is their rush to get into a relationship
to avoid being alone. Many women have paid a heavy price by
moving too fast such as losing their life, contracting a
sexually transmitted disease or being abused to name a few.
Every unhappy relationship that ended has small nuggets of
wisdom women can learn from. Plus, each of those relationships
most likely ended for the same reason although it may not appear
that way!
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Puberty is a difficult time for girls; they are between two worlds; girl & woman. Girls can experience rapid growth, breast enlargement, vaginal secretions, pubic, armpit, and leg hair growth. They can also feel discomfort, and pain caused by growing breast and their menstrual cycle.
There are also many chemical and physical changes that can affect a girl’s behavior, and attitude. These changes are often accompanied by mood swings, which may include sadness, excitability, depression, and an increased interest in her sexuality. These changes are a normal part of puberty, experienced by all girls.
Girls may also display a greater need for privacy and personal space during puberty. It is important for a girl to have some space, and privacy. Being able to get away from things can have a positive impact on girls’ emotions. But they must be careful not to distant themselves from family during this time.
Things like peer pressure, relationships, and family life can seem difficult. Talking to family can be a great benefit during this time. It is important to keep up communication, talking can help make the transition of puberty much easier.
For more information about puberty, breast developments, and bra sizes, please visit http://www.myfirstbra.us.
Kim Shire
MyFirstBra.us is a helpful guide for preteen, teens, and parents concerning training bras, and issues surrounding puberty & breast development, in young girls ages 8-16.
MyFirstBra.us is a community project of National Webworks. All authors are from National Webworks, Volunteers, or Contracted for research and writing.
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My Special Evening by Jacquelyn Hollister
Right at this moment, I am stressed. I need a special evening
all to my self. No kids, no husband, no worries. My special
evening would be all about self indulgence. First, I would
reserve a nice hotel room. Once there, I would turn on some
smooth jazz by Gerald Albright to get me going. Then, as I
danced to my jazzy grooves, I would place lavender scented
candles all over the place, especially in the bath area. After
that I would draw myself a nice hot bubble bath, a vanilla
scented bubble bath or maybe peppermint. Then I would undress,
slip into the tub, still groovin to Gerald Albright, lights off,
lavender candles burning, and meditate, soaking all my cares
away. After all of my stress swirled down the drain, I would dry
off and and then massage myself with some type of fruity scented
body lotion. Next I would slip on a nice comfortable sexy night
gown. Then I would pour myself a glass of wine and curl up on
the bed to read some of my favorite magazines like Heart and
Soul, Self, O(Oprah), Cosmopolitan, and Essence, or I would read
a book by my favorite author Iyanla Vanzant. Aaaah, what a nice
evening that would be for me… “Mommy, Mommy, Mommy”, “Did you
do this?”, “Did you do that?”, “I need this!”, “I need
that!”…Sorry, I have to go, but while Im tending to my kids
and husband, I will be planning my special evening set for this
weekend. You better believe it!
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